Becoming me again

Winnie,

It’s mummy, I wanted you to know that as dark as things felt for a bit and as lost as mummy was I’m doing well now, for the 1st time lately since losing you I’m starting to feel like the old me is starting to shine through, I still miss you and always will, I’m still sad sometimes but I’m okay. Winnie I want to thank you, thank you for teaching me lessons I never would have learned, showing me I can get through anything with a bit of courage and strength, you are now my heartbeat, always there and always being felt but never really seen. I love you Winnie bobbin xxx

Love mummy xxxx

I’m doing it for you.

My little Winnie bobbin, I hope when you look down at me your happy with what you see, it’s not been easy I’ll admit but I’ve tried my best and still continue to do so, i lost my way for a little time but I’m mr again now and I have worked hard to get a normalise life together again, I’ve had my bumps along the way, with the diagnosis of fibromyalgia and then endometriosis going haywire. I know you looked over me during surgery and I thank you for fhat, I am starting a new chapter of life now Winnie, one with less pain (fingers crossed) I’ve been through a lot and fought my way back up I will continue to do so. I’m recovering well and after recover it’s a new start for me, starting with a trip to fuerteventura, I will be there on your angelversary so we will lite a candle on the beach for you. No one can bring me down Winnie with all I have been through I can’t go through anything worse can I? I am proud and sometimes amazed at where I am in my life considering what I have been through, it’s a massive fight but it’s one worth winning.

To anyone out their struggling, please don’t struggle alone, you will get through this, it may not seem possible but believe me you can do it. I’ve said before and will say again, never feel alone I always have time to talk and I can be reached in the following ways.

Email :- leashutch@icloud.com
Facebook :- break the silence and ask about our children
Instagram ;- fightingforwinter

Always remember the important things

sometimes when working our way through the mine field that is grief we can lose sight of what is important, I like to sit from time to time and remind myself about what it is that’s important to me. It’s importnat to me that my girls are happy and well looked after and I am so grateful to their dad and step mum for their role in helping with this, it is important to me to keep winters memory alive and try to help others along the way and try to achieve this with my blog, Facebook page and my Instagram, it’s important to me to continued fighting no matter what battling 2 chronic pain conditions make its harder but definitely not impossible and finally the people around me are important, when I say around me I don’t mean right beside me, I have amazing supportive people on the other side of the world and their support means so much, I am so grateful for the amazing support group I have including friends family and my amazing boyfriend who I honestly can not praise enough. 

Happy 4th birthday baby girl

April 2nd 2019, my little should be here turning 4, celebrating with her family and all her nursery friends, instead I woke up feeling somewhat empty and numb. Every year winters birthday feels just as raw as the one before but I don’t think that’s unusual to be fair. I get up, get dressed, put my make up and push through the best I can. Went shopping for birthday balloons, birthday banners and cake the only difference is we bring them to your forever bed and your not here to blow the candles out yourself. Mummy loves you Winnie bobbin xxx